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November 19, 2000
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Dominance hierarchy.
It's not likely that Job gave the idea a moment's thought,
especially not after the suffering began.
But Job's sufferings were exacerbated by his inability to
understand just what God was up to.
We can't be sure if Job was being deliberately obtuse, or he was
simply a bit dull.
In any case, his life became a pathography of bitterness and
despair, and not until we arrive at today's chapter in the story is
there even a glimmer of hope.
In nature, dominance hierarchy is a fact of life.
Animals live in groups, and within each group, one member is
dominant while the others are submissive, and it is in
the best interest of the submissives to pick up on their role
quickly.
There are perks for those at the top of the pecking order:
they're given priority when it comes to food, resting places and
mates.
Those who are subordinate express submissive behaviors by looking
away and lowering head, body or tail.
You might want to ponder this as we approach Thanksgiving...
I believe this is what makes family gatherings difficult...
ongoing rivalry to establish who is the dominant one.
To show dominance, elk, for example, butt heads with rivals,
and some species of African fish turn bright colors.
Porcupines fling a couple hundred quills of the 30,000 at their
disposal into the snout of their enemy.
Skunks lift their tails.
Some avoid confrontation by changing their coloration to avoid
detection.
A horned lizard confronts its enemy by inflating its
rear end to create the illusion of greater size,
and if that doesn't work, it squirts blood from its eyes into the
face of the attacker.
Cuttlefish spray an inky fluid, creating an opaque screen
blocking them from view long enough to escape.
Some species of fish activate the venomous spines on their dorsal
fin.
The Torpedo electric ray can deliver a shock of up to 200 volts for
about a second.
Most species have defense mechanisms to protect themselves
against a dominant species or predator.
Predators - whether natural or divine - were the
last thing Job was thinking about when trouble visited his house like
a whirlwind.
He never knew what hit him.
He didn't have time to run and hide, and when it was clear he was
in trouble...
he tried puffing himself up, throwing up a smoke screen or two,
he tried putting on a face and saying, "I'm
fine."
and running to the protection of the chattering men he called his
friends.
Whatever the options, he wasn't about to cower, roll over and
expose his underbelly.
He wasn't even sure who the predator was.
God? Satan?
Or was it simply a case of extreme bad luck?
Essentially clueless, he floundered while others tried to help him
think his way out of the mess he was in.
Fact is, all humans have trouble with the dominance
hierarchy.
Yet it's present in virtually every social interaction.
A drop-dead gorgeous model walks into the room and male heads
snap with whiplash force, spouses at their elbows notwithstanding.
These spouses will later accuse their mates of drooling,
cowering, groveling and of - given the chance - exposing more than
their underbellies.
The dominance factor also appears in children even before the age
of 3.
It's more than just a case of "my toy";
it's a yearning, a tendency that transcends gender, implanting
itself early in the social landscape.
Research shows that dominant humans typically stand straighter
and move more expressively and expansively like the alpha male of a
wolf pack, head and tail erect.
Handwriting may provide more clues.
Eye contact is a factor.
Body language also bespeaks the dominant/submissive equation:
eyebrows raised, chin up and full eye contact.
Now another study suggests that every time we open our mouths we
announce our dominance or submissiveness.
Scholars from Kent State University taped 25 interviews of
Larry King Live,
focusing on vocal frequencies below 500 hertz.
Researchers had, in the past, ignored these low-frequency
sounds as meaningless noise,
a nonverbal hum that carries the verbal message.
But they noticed that in all these conversations, these low hums
of the two speakers converged,
suggesting that the speakers needed on a subconscious level to be on
the same wavelength.
King modulated his voice to meet that of a high-ranking person,
such as the President,
while in most cases, his guests modulated their voices to meet that
of the interviewer.
The most submissive guest of the shows they taped was Dan Quayle.
It is this paralanguage that allows someone, when listening to a
friend on the phone to interpret by tonal quality alone whether that
person is talking to a boss, an employee or a friend.
And herein lies Job's problem.
He either had difficulty modulating his voice to meet the low
humming of the divine, or he intractably refused to do so.
He had lost his sons and daughters, his house, his flocks, his
health and was estranged from his wife who presumably had never
uttered the words "for better or for worse, for richer or
for poorer, in sickness and in health."
Undeterred, and convinced of the rectitude of his position,
Job kept a power hum going as best he could,
chin up, body straight, tail erect and full eye contact,
beating his chest in the face of God.
We're hardly in a position to blame him.
There is nothing to suggest that he deserved the treatment he was
getting.
By all accounts, he was a righteous man.
And the best account we have is from God....
"Have you considered my servant Job?"
God says.
"There is no one like him on the earth, a blameless
and upright man who fears God and turns away from
evil" (Job 1:8).
Isn't this all that God asks of anyone, to be a blameless,
upright God-fearing person who turns away from evil?
What more could be required of a person than to "do justice,
and to love kindness, and to walk humbly with your God?"
(Micah 6:8).
Yet, Satan cast aspersions on his piety by suggesting that Job
was merely raiding the storeroom of religion for his personal
benefit, and that his faithfulness was merely the product of his
prosperity.
Satan says,
"Take away the prosperity, and the faithfulness will die
quickly."
Both God and Satan had a point.
Job was certainly the man God saw him to be, but he
was also someone whose experience of God was completely framed by
his perception that God's favor was contingent upon his good
behavior.
His consistent defense as he sits in the ashes of despair is that
he is undeserving of this treatment:
"I have done nothing wrong, and in fact have done everything
right."
He continues:
"I delivered the poor who cried and the orphan who had
no helper"
(Job 29:12).
The apostle James calls that "pure and undefiled"
religion (James 1:27).
Clearly, Job wasn't like those who, rather than seeing the
problems of people, see people as problems.
In this high state of annoyance, Job continues the litany, making
himself sound like an early version of Martin Luther King, Jr. or
Mother Teresa:
"I caused the widow's heart to sing for joy.
I put on righteousness and it clothed me; my justice was like a robe
and a turban.
I was eyes to the blind, and feet to the lame.
I was a father to the needy, and I championed the cause of the
stranger"
(Job 29:13-16).
These facts are not in dispute.
What Job did not understand is that it was not his concept of
himself that was faulty;
it was his concept of God that begged for revision.
In the face of inconsolable grief, Job, like us, could
do no more than ask the questions,
"Why?" and "Why me?"
Although he had extravagant evidence of the greatness and
dominance of God, he could not grasp the dominance hierarchy as it
related to him.
He understood his relationship with God as an "I'll scratch
your back if you scratch mine." deal.
When the verbal hoohah dies down, God intervenes, and immediately
points to the problem of the low hum:
"Who is this that darkens counsel by words without
knowledge?"
(Job 38:2).
Job is utterly incapable of modulating his tone, his life, to
match that of the Almighty.
God then lashes at Job saying that for all his righteous
behavior, he's been acting like a wuss:
"Gird up your loins like a man"
(Job 38:3)
and men, whenever testosterone is at stake, tend to sit up and
listen.
God is direct:
"Where were you when I laid the foundation of the
earth?"
(Job 38:4).
The subsequent interrogation is utterly withering.
And when God is through, Job is rolling in submission, exposing his
underbelly:
"See, I am of small account; what shall I answer
you?"
(Job 40:4).
But fawning and groveling is not what God wants either.
God again says, "Gird up your loins like a man"
(Job 40:7) and goes after him.
When the dust settles, Job understands the dominance hierarchy,
and has a different response:
"I know ... that no purpose of yours can be thwarted ...
I have uttered what I did not understand ...
I had heard of you by the hearing of the ear, but now my eye sees
you; therefore I ... repent in dust and ashes"
(Job 42:2-6).
Now God and Job are humming.
Now they're talking.
God appreciates the faithfulness of Job, and Job
"sees" God for the first time as one who relates to his
people as God -
not as an employer who rewards his employees with stock options, car
toys and a cattle ranch.
And he sees himself as a faithful servant who renders his
service not to place God in his debt, but because it is right and
fitting to do so.
The lesson is all about living by faith, not by works -
not to mention that in our conversations with God, it is always best
to watch our tone of voice.
Sources:
Conniff, Richard. "Want to be boss?" Discover.
May, 2000. 73-81.
"Dominance and reproductive success among nonhuman animals:
A cross species comparison." Ethology and Sociology,
July 1995.
Wright, Robert. The Moral Animal: Why We Are the Way We
Are. New York: Vintage Books, 1995.
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